UNNOTICED DISCRIMINATION
"Madam
I don't need this saree. Please give me a cash bonus instead, I can use it for
my children's education."
Radha Aunty,
house
help of my neighbor said remorsefully. But her demands
were not fulfilled and she was scolded badly by her employer.
Another high profile lady who threw her maid out because she was demanding an increment, reflects her immaturity.
Why do we treat domestic workers miserably?
What is their fault?
Just because they are working for us and
we’re their employer, it doesn’t mean that they aren't worthy of love and care.
How many of us have food with our house helps?
How many of us will tell our parents that this kind of behavior is
unjustified? (I guess very few) Nobody would speak up for them.
They themselves don’t demand for their
rights as they are helpless. And they cannot afford to lose their jobs because
nobody will take care after their families , their kids, if they are jobless.
Ministry of Labour and Employment
introduced the National Policy for Domestic Workers which recognizes their
right to form trade unions and associations, but very few are aware of it and
very few of them dare to rebel and exercise this right to demand equality.
The major reason behind this discrimination
is that the tasks performed by these domestic workers are not recognized as
‘work’. Domestic workers in India continue to struggle for visibility and
recognition.
Despite of existing laws such as the Unorganized Social Security Act, 2008 , Sexual Harassment against Women at Work Place (Prevention, Prohibition and Redressal) Act, 2013 and Minimum Wages Schedules which refers about domestic workers they are not secure. The lack of enforcement in letter and spirit renders the fair terms of employment and decent working conditions unfulfilled.
Domestic workers should however be
guaranteed the same terms of employment as enjoyed by other workers. They
deserve the same amount of respect, emoluments, salary, allowances, bonus etc.
Why they deserve equal treatment? Because it is clearly mentioned in Article 14
of the constitution that talks about right to equality and violating a
fundamental right means abridging the basic structure of our constitution.
Secondly, Right to livelihood is a basic
right that ensures survival and healthy development of an individual, if that
is denied then this is against the principle of inclusivity and work for all.
Contrarily, domestic workers are neither having a secure livelihood nor a basic standard of living. They are surviving on the edge. They are living a marginal life.
There is no criteria for minimum wage for them. Though, the Labor ministry was planning to bring about a national policy to protect the interest of these workers and to guarantee them minimum wages and social security but it has been pending for almost three years now.
Their right to free speech and expression
is also at stake because they don’t have right to deny or speak against the
unjust behavior of their employers. It is no less than slavery where you don’t
have the right to choice instead you're bound to agree.
There are no legal provisions for paid
leaves or bonus, this makes their financial condition worse. During contingency
they are denied of holidays and are threatened to fire from work if they don’t
continue the chores.
I asked
one of the workers that how much she is paid?
She said that “I earn three thousand a
month and if I take a work off our madam deduct the money. Our work timings are not fixed sometimes I have to work the whole day.”
I mean just three thousand a month in these
inflationary times. Quite hard to imagine!!!! But it is a reality of various
people out there.
Kamla (domestic worker) she was quite
satisfied with her employer. She said with a wide smile that my madam is very
good she pays me three thousand and seven hundred a month, provides me healthy
food daily and gifts me a good saree once a month and also funds my daughter’s
education, I’m lucky to have her in my life. She’s is a social worker, she works
for betterment of the society, I’m proud of my madam.
Listening to Kamla’s story I felt that
kindness is a rare quality , anyways it still exists. I was glad to hear her
experience.
But the poor standard of living and minimal
salary of plethora of domestic workers paints a grim picture.
Apart from their working condition I was quite curious to know what exactly are their demands and what they expect from us?
After talking to them, I came to know about three common demands.
- Polite behaviour
- Good salary (bonus etc)
- Fixed working hours (in case of overtime paying extra money accordingly)
Then I started thinking that , what I (we) as an individual can do to make this possible?
After half an hour I prepared a list of things I (we) can do to make their lives better:
- Asking them how was
their day? How is their family doing?
- Making our parents
understand about their (workers) rights.
- Behaving politely
with them.
- Supporting them for
their justified demands.
- Teaching (tutions) their kids
for free. (I mean that is a noble thing to do.)
- Gifting them
something it can be as small as a chocolate or anything else.
I know we all are busy with our lives and we all have our own commitments but these little act of kindness can make a big difference in someone's life and it can do a lot good to your mental health as well as their. It takes nothing to be kind.
Let’s be compassionate towards domestic workers!
Let’s be polite to them!
Let's make our bucket of kindness fuller!
Thankyou for writing this. How simply you wrote about problem, govt schemes, and solutions. People doesn't understand that we all are labour and we all deserve sense of security and respect. In moving forward, we forget to look towards who help us looking forward and domestic workers are included in the list.
ReplyDeleteWill try my best to make safer place for them. And you can count me for help. Thankyou. :)
I agree from what you're saying. Thank you so much❤️
DeleteGreat thought!!! U are really creating good causes.. happy to see that u urself is so much aware and creating awareness into other life too.
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DeleteVery good. You're doing a praiseworthy work champ. You have great observation skills. Very few people think about other's welfare. And I'm proud to say that you're in that list of 1-2% people. Commendable job👍
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DeleteNaaz! From where u get such unbelievable ideas. You're an amazing writer.❤️❤️
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DeleteQuite insightful. I am speechless now. Words aren't enough to praise you. You're my inspiration. ❤️
ReplyDeleteThat means a lot. Thanks ❤️
DeleteYou're a great writer, a good human being, a kind hearted girl and what not. What a perfect writeup! You'll do wonders in life. I'm lucky to have a friend like you. ❤️
ReplyDeleteThanks for the compliment.
DeleteI never noticed this until and unless you highlighted this issue. Rightly named , it's a unnoticed discrimination. Great work Naaz.
ReplyDeleteThanks for acknowledging.
DeleteGirl! Get it published in a newspaper. I'll help you out. This is incredible. Well done My friend.��
ReplyDeleteOkay. Miss journalist, will try that out.❤️❤️
DeleteMay you achieve all your dreams. You deserve all the happiness and success.
ReplyDeleteBro, we need people like you in the system to reform it. All the best for everything.
That's a big compliment. Thanks a lot.
DeleteSuch deep thought process❤️......you are right that we can't imagine how our small geatures can bring big difference in lifes of people ,whose miseries are unnoticed. Keep writing����
ReplyDeleteIf a person does all the work of your house, then we should respect him as a member of the house. A person who washing false dishes and washing dirty clothes should be deserve respect. I saw a driver jo lakhon ki gadi chalata he but aaj bhi ghar pedal hi jata he.And naaz ❤️ you are the best person ever, you are doing well in your life and being a voice of helpless people.
ReplyDeleteThat's an incredible thought Asif. You've great thoughts.🌸
DeleteGood
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DeleteNaaz! I'am flabbergasted. You're growing day by day. I hope all your wishes comes to and you can work for people's welfere.❤
ReplyDeleteThank You so much for your valuable comment. It means a lot.❤️
DeleteHow beautifully you've highlighted this issue that was needed.i'll surely be more kind to my house help and i will make her day special by throwing a compliment or buying a chocolate.thanks naaz❤
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome Riya❤️❤️ And am glad that it compelled you to act kindly ❤️❤️
DeleteYou're strong with your pen girl! Its commendable how you conveyed your message stating both the emotional and political aspects of it. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the compliment 🌸
DeleteThank you for keeping our roots grounded. Humanity comes first, whatever or however we live. Keep up the good work naaz !!!🌸🦋❣
ReplyDeleteYes. Humanity is above everything. 👍
DeleteKudos! To the young and talented writer Naaz Khan. I'm proud of you. Continue your blogs.👍
ReplyDeleteThanks Preeti❤️❤️
DeleteWhat to say Naaz...first of all very well written���� because it truly expressed the emotions of domestic workers...people who work hard to make their living truly deserve our respect and appreciation.They think them merely as a servant.My family especially my mother always told me to respect them.When my mother was a college student...they had a lady at home as their domestic help and one day during winters my mother saw her shivering...so she gave her shawl to that domestic help.We should atleast pay respect towards their work because our behaviour sets an example for others to follow.Great Naaz...such topics of social importance seems to be very common but it is required to come to the notice of each and every person...and yes they should be made aware of their rights...☺️✨well done��������������������
ReplyDeleteI'm glad that your mother is such an amazing human being and those traits trickled down in your personality too. You're such a kind hearted girl. And yes it's very important to understand everyone's rights and respect them, i mean that's what makes us human.
Deletewhat a perfect thought on this poor mentality of people ���� A few people thinks like you at anything����....now I'm just so curious to know your perspective on many others������....proud of you dost��������
ReplyDeleteThanks Dimpal you're always there to cheer me up. I am sure I won't let u down. Will come up with better blogs in future. ❤️❤️
DeleteThis is seriously good . But mere yahan scean altogether different h . Yahan log chahte h unke bacche koi apne parents ke sath kaam pr na aaye aur school jaae ...unki demands ke according 100/ hour payment bhi kiya but jyada earning ke laalach me na ye apne baccho ko school ke bajae work pr leke aa jaate h ...but jab society se inhe criticism face karna pada tab unhone sab chhod kar kahin aur settle ho gye . Wahan pataa chala ki sab bacche se lekr bado tak sab earn karte h ... So what I think is awareness education kyun important h ...wo unko is condition se kese bahar leke aa sakti h .. ye sab samjhana utna hi important h ... ��
ReplyDeleteYou've presented a different side of the story and I really appreciate it. The need of the hour is to aware them about the importance of education and let their kids study and contribute to our national development. :)
DeleteGreat Naaz, but as per the ILO, launched joint advocacy and communication on the theme of Rights for Domestic Workers in February 2014.in India,More women in India are receiving an education than ever before and the country has recorded consistent economic growth. Despite this, India continues to have one of lowest rates of female workforce participation in the world.Close to 54 percent of working age women between the ages of 15 to 59 are not available for work because of household responsibilities or domestic work. In addition, they undertake tasks such as fetching wood and water which goes towards the care and sustenance of their family. Such work is called many things – unpaid care work, reproductive work, social care functions and so on.Hired domestic workers ease the burden of individual households by undertaking household chores in return for remuneration. The tasks include the care of children and the elderly, cooking, driving, cleaning, grocery shopping, running errands and taking care of household pets, particularly in urban areas. However, despite the benefits this work brings to individual households, domestic workers are often not recognized as workers by society., by the great work naaz abhi bhi ed-tech platform pe ho �� sorry for the anonymity waise guess kar sakti ho����
ReplyDeleteThat was quite insightful. I am unable to guess.
DeleteIt's a great work to be the voice of voiceless.
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